Relationship and Intimacy Coaching

ONE-ON-ONE & GROUP

Services Offered

Dating

What aspect of dating are you curious about? Whether it’s tips for dating, navigating relationships, or something specific, I’m here to help!

This will include the following workshops and benifits:

  • How to stop Ruminating. Click here to Register

  • Building Stability Beyond Overwhelm. Click Here to Register

(Includes above listed Workshops + Weekly Newsletter & Tips + S.I.P)

Trauma & Attachment

Trauma and attachment are closely linked in how they influence relationships and emotional well-being.

This will include the following workshops and benifits:

  • Healing PTSD with Movement. Click here

    to Register

  • Learning from the Wisdom of Trauma

  • Reclaiming your Body after Trauma

Sex & Pleasure

Sex and pleasure are fundamental aspects of human experience that can encompass a wide range of emotions, physical sensations, and relational dynamics.

Trauma & Attachment

Trauma and attachment are closely linked in how they influence relationships and emotional well-being.

This will include the following workshops and benifits:

  • Healing PTSD with Movement. Click here

    to Register

  • Learning from the Wisdom of Trauma

  • Reclaiming your Body after Trauma

How can I help you?

Master Relationship Repair

  • Skills to heal past wounds and rebuild trust in relationships

  • Strategies for addressing and resolving relationship challenges constructively

  • Support in strengthening emotional bonds and fostering intimacy

Explore Arousal and Pleasure

  • Techniques to enhance arousal and experience deeper levels of pleasure

  • Practices for exploring and understanding your unique desires and preferences

  • Guidance on cultivating a fulfilling and satisfying sexual connection with yourself and others

Master Relationship Repair

  • Skills to heal past wounds and rebuild trust in relationships

  • Strategies for addressing and resolving relationship challenges constructively

  • Support in strengthening emotional bonds and fostering intimacy

Explore Arousal and Pleasure

  • Techniques to enhance arousal and experience deeper levels of pleasure

  • Practices for exploring and understanding your unique desires and preferences

  • Guidance on cultivating a fulfilling and satisfying sexual connection with yourself and others

Embrace Intentional Dating

  • Guidance on setting clear intentions and goals for your dating life

  • Strategies for navigating the dating landscape with confidence and purpose

  • Support in building meaningful connections based on your values and desires

Embrace Intentional Dating

  • Guidance on setting clear intentions and goals for your dating life

  • Strategies for navigating the dating landscape with confidence and purpose

  • Support in building meaningful connections based on your values and desires

Shed Sexual Shame

  • Support in overcoming feelings of shame and guilt surrounding sexuality

  • Tools for developing a healthy and positive relationship with your body and sexuality

  • Practices for embracing your sexual desires and preferences without judgment

Shed Sexual Shame

  • Support in overcoming feelings of shame and guilt surrounding sexuality

  • Tools for developing a healthy and positive relationship with your body and sexuality

  • Practices for embracing your sexual desires and preferences without judgment

Overcome Relational Trauma

  • Healing strategies for processing and integrating past traumatic experiences in relationships

  • Techniques for rebuilding trust and safety in relationships after trauma

  • Support in developing resilience and moving forward from relational trauma

Overcome Relational Trauma

  • Healing strategies for processing and integrating past traumatic experiences in relationships

  • Techniques for rebuilding trust and safety in relationships after trauma

  • Support in developing resilience and moving forward from relational trauma

End Self-Sabotage

  • Strategies for recognizing and overcoming patterns of self-sabotage in relationships

  • Support in building self-awareness and understanding underlying motivations

  • Techniques for fostering self-compassion and creating positive change

End Self-Sabotage

  • Strategies for recognizing and overcoming patterns of self-sabotage in relationships

  • Support in building self-awareness and understanding underlying motivations

  • Techniques for fostering self-compassion and creating positive change

Develop Sexual Intelligence

  • Education on sexual health, pleasure, consent, and boundaries

  • Exploration of different aspects of sexuality and sexual expression

  • Techniques for cultivating awareness and mindfulness in sexual experiences

Develop Sexual Intelligence

  • Education on sexual health, pleasure, consent, and boundaries

  • Exploration of different aspects of sexuality and sexual expression

  • Techniques for cultivating awareness and mindfulness in sexual experiences

Hone Communication Skills

  • Techniques for expressing your needs and desires effectively in relationships

  • Tools for active listening and empathetic communication

  • Support in building stronger and more fulfilling relationships through clear and open communication

Hone Communication Skills

  • Techniques for expressing your needs and desires effectively in relationships

  • Tools for active listening and empathetic communication

  • Support in building stronger and more fulfilling relationships through clear and open communication

Conquer Intimacy Fears

  • Support in addressing and overcoming fears related to intimacy and vulnerability

  • Techniques for building trust and safety in intimate relationships

  • Guidance on cultivating intimacy and connection in a way that feels authentic and empowering

Conquer Intimacy Fears

  • Support in addressing and overcoming fears related to intimacy and vulnerability

  • Techniques for building trust and safety in intimate relationships

  • Guidance on cultivating intimacy and connection in a way that feels authentic and empowering

Working with Priya has been a transformative experience unlike any other. For years, I carried the weight of shame and secrecy from childhood abuse as well as infidelity in my marriage. The emotional distance between my husband and I was large and continuing to grow. Our entire relationship was fueled by years of resentment and unspoken truths.

On the surface, we appeared to be the epitome of a power couple, but behind closed doors, our relationship was far from it. Priya provided a safe haven for me to confront my deepest fears and insecurities. With her compassionate guidance, I navigated through layers of shame and guilt, unraveling the tangled web of lies I had woven.

Through techniques I learned with her in The Relationship Lab, I learned to reconnect with my true self and embrace vulnerability as a source of strength.I went down a path of self-discovery with Priya that unearthed newfound depths within myself and cultivated a newfound ability to communicate authentically. Priya's unwavering support empowered me to confront the truth and rebuild trust in my marriage.

Today, my husband and I are on a path of healing and renewal, forging a deeper connection rooted in honesty and transparency. I'm eternally grateful to Priya for guiding me through this process of growth and self-liberation.

-Tiana T.

Working with Priya has been a transformative experience unlike any other. For years, I carried the weight of shame and secrecy from childhood abuse as well as infidelity in my marriage. The emotional distance between my husband and I was large and continuing to grow. Our entire relationship was fueled by years of resentment and unspoken truths.

On the surface, we appeared to be the epitome of a power couple, but behind closed doors, our relationship was far from it. Priya provided a safe haven for me to confront my deepest fears and insecurities. With her compassionate guidance, I navigated through layers of shame and guilt, unraveling the tangled web of lies I had woven.

Through techniques I learned with her in The Relationship Lab, I learned to reconnect with my true self and embrace vulnerability as a source of strength.I went down a path of self-discovery with Priya that unearthed newfound depths within myself and cultivated a newfound ability to communicate authentically. Priya's unwavering support empowered me to confront the truth and rebuild trust in my marriage.

Today, my husband and I are on a path of healing and renewal, forging a deeper connection rooted in honesty and transparency. I'm eternally grateful to Priya for guiding me through this process of growth and self-liberation.

-Tiana T.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Can my sex life become more engaged and pleasurable?

Yes, working with Priya you can explore your fantasies, sexual edge, and grow in self-awareness of your arousal.  Maybe you want to negotiate kinky play with your partner. Or, perhaps you feel ashamed of a fantasy that you run in your head.  Whatever you are thinking or wanting, we can work together to find the perfect way for you to negotiate getting it put in the world. 

What if I have Vaginal Pain or Erectile Dysfunction? Can you help?

Priya has helped people with all sorts of physical limitations and sexual dysfunctions find experiences and pleasure that create a thriving sex life.  Her clients have found both improvement and healing after working with Priya within 3-6 months.  What ends up surprising these clients most is how once they learn to listen to their body’s language they can utilize it as a powerful tool to explore. 

Do you take insurance?

No, Priya is not a therapist but is a certified sex,relationship, and intimacy coach.  As a coach she acts as a practice partner to help you create the relationships you want in your life.  Working with a sex therapist is very different from working with a Somatica Coach.  Somatica is a practical, hands on and experiential modality where you gain the tools and confidence you need.   What makes this different from therapy is the real life practice you get that helps you make changes rapidly. Coaching and traditional talk therapy are two very different modalities. My role as a coach is to help you get what you want around your unique needs and what you desire in life.  

What is the Somatica Method?

The Somatica Method is an experiential holistic sex and relationship coaching method that combines talk-based coaching WITH more experiential, hands-on practices that help you learn the techniques for drawing deeper mind-body connections to yourself and others that lends itself to intimacy, connection, and relating. Clients enter a “lab” with me where we can experiment with trying on concepts with practices on topics like attachment, identity, core desires, boundaries, repair, communication, attunement, vulnerable sharing, arousal and connection.

What do you mean it’s experiential?

What makes the Somatica Method unique is the use of the self in the coaching relationship.  I don’t just talk about it with you. We practice concepts within the coaching relationship.  I help clients explore connecting to their whole body, pleasure, desire, attachment + individuation, empathy, tuning to others, navigating life transitions, shame, core desires and full erotic self-expression.  We practice together and then when you have it down you then integrate these experiences into your everyday lives and relationships.

What can I expect in a coaching session?

My coaching style is very client-centric with an emphasis on what you want for yourself and your life.  I will always leave space to address what is happening in your current life while giving you education and practices on concepts for your healing, growth, and transformation.  Empathy and connection are the driving forces behind my practice.  I will walk alongside you as you move through and grow.

Who is sex, relationship, and intimacy coaching for?

Single, Married, Dating, Poly, Open, Gay, Straight, Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, folks- anyone who is looking to grow in their own self-awareness and to be in a relationship with others is welcome into “the Lab” with Priya.  She helps people who want to gain communication mastery to navigate needs, boundaries and conflict.  In addition, she specializes in helping people recovery from relational trauma such as sexual abuse, abandonment, neglect and betrayal. Priya works with her clients to curate a program for their individual needs. 

Do you have Sex with your clients?

If clients choose to explore, they can engage in a number of experiential practices with Priya that explore desire and arousal staying in the boundaries of the Somatica Method.  She does not engage with clients in the act of oral or penetrative sex, genital touch or with lip kissing.  When in sessions clothing is kept. Both of you will share your individual boundaries. 

Can my sex life become more engaged and pleasurable?

Yes, working with Priya you can explore your fantasies, sexual edge, and grow in self-awareness of your arousal.  Maybe you want to negotiate kinky play with your partner. Or, perhaps you feel ashamed of a fantasy that you run in your head.  Whatever you are thinking or wanting, we can work together to find the perfect way for you to negotiate getting it put in the world. 

Our Recent Blogs

A couple sitting close together, with one partner resting their head on the other's shoulder, symbolizing comfort and support in a loving relationship.

Is it possible to love again?

June 02, 20242 min read

A couple sitting close together, with one partner resting their head on the other's shoulder, symbolizing comfort and support in a loving relationship.

In the midst of a cozy afternoon nestled in Puerto Moreles Mexico, I find myself lost in a whimsical daydream with a beautiful soul—my partner. We were eating lunch at a vegan cafe after snorkeling in the national reef park and seeing incredible see life.  It was hard to not find myself lost in a daydream concocting plans for him and I to open up our very own vegan café with swing seats, nestled in a yoga community by the ocean, where endless snorkeling adventures could await. It's a delightful flight of fancy, a playful exploration of what could be. And while the reality of such a venture remains uncertain, the joy lies in the mere act of imagining the possibilities.

As I indulge in these creative musings, my mind inevitably drifts back to my own journey—a path marked by trauma, heartache, and, eventually, profound healing and growth. There was a time when the weight of past wounds clouded my vision, casting a shadow over any semblance of hope or dreams for the future. The thought of daring to dream seemed impossibly out of reach.

But I made a choice—a conscious decision to invest wholeheartedly in myself, my healing, and my growth. It was a journey of inner discipline, resilience, and relentless determination, confronting the demons of trauma with grace and compassion. And through it all, I discovered a reservoir of strength within myself that I never knew existed.


Standing in the present moment, I am acutely aware of the uncertainty that lies ahead. Life's twists and turns are unpredictable, and the path forward may not always be clear. Yet, amidst the uncertainty, there is a profound sense of purpose—a guiding light that illuminates my journey and infuses each step with meaning.


This blog is a testament to the transformative power of inner work and the beauty of partnership forged in the fires of healing. It's about confronting fears of intimacy, navigating the wounds of complex trauma, and ultimately, building a relationship that nurtures and supports both partners.


In my partnership with this extraordinary man, I've witnessed the alchemy of love and healing at work. Together, we've created a space where vulnerability is celebrated, wounds are tenderly tended to, and growth is embraced with open arms. It's a partnership built on mutual respect, empathy, and a shared commitment to making each other's lives better.


As I gaze into the horizon of possibility, I am filled with gratitude for the journey that brought me here. From trauma to triumph, from heartache to healing, each step has been a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of love. And as I embark on this next chapter, I do so with an open heart and a steadfast belief in the magic of possibility and partnership. I know it’s possible for you too and will hold the space for that until you can envision it for your own life. 

Love after traumaHealing relationshipsOvercoming heartacheRelationship healing journeyFinding love again
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Priya Patel

A Somatica Institute Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach, specializing in trauma recovery with the Center for Trauma and Embodiment. Drawing from my extensive experience and teachings in Eastern practices of Meditation, Yoga, and Self-Realization worldwide, I've crafted a unique blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom to guide individuals toward having the life and relationship they want and deserve. With over 6 years of coaching experience, I've supported over 250 individuals, young adults, and couples in extreme distress. Through the transformative hands-on program of the Relationship Lab, I equip clients with essential tools for intimacy, helping them break free from destructive patterns and fostering genuine connections.

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A couple sitting close together, with one partner resting their head on the other's shoulder, symbolizing comfort and support in a loving relationship.

Is it possible to love again?

June 02, 20242 min read

A couple sitting close together, with one partner resting their head on the other's shoulder, symbolizing comfort and support in a loving relationship.

In the midst of a cozy afternoon nestled in Puerto Moreles Mexico, I find myself lost in a whimsical daydream with a beautiful soul—my partner. We were eating lunch at a vegan cafe after snorkeling in the national reef park and seeing incredible see life.  It was hard to not find myself lost in a daydream concocting plans for him and I to open up our very own vegan café with swing seats, nestled in a yoga community by the ocean, where endless snorkeling adventures could await. It's a delightful flight of fancy, a playful exploration of what could be. And while the reality of such a venture remains uncertain, the joy lies in the mere act of imagining the possibilities.

As I indulge in these creative musings, my mind inevitably drifts back to my own journey—a path marked by trauma, heartache, and, eventually, profound healing and growth. There was a time when the weight of past wounds clouded my vision, casting a shadow over any semblance of hope or dreams for the future. The thought of daring to dream seemed impossibly out of reach.

But I made a choice—a conscious decision to invest wholeheartedly in myself, my healing, and my growth. It was a journey of inner discipline, resilience, and relentless determination, confronting the demons of trauma with grace and compassion. And through it all, I discovered a reservoir of strength within myself that I never knew existed.


Standing in the present moment, I am acutely aware of the uncertainty that lies ahead. Life's twists and turns are unpredictable, and the path forward may not always be clear. Yet, amidst the uncertainty, there is a profound sense of purpose—a guiding light that illuminates my journey and infuses each step with meaning.


This blog is a testament to the transformative power of inner work and the beauty of partnership forged in the fires of healing. It's about confronting fears of intimacy, navigating the wounds of complex trauma, and ultimately, building a relationship that nurtures and supports both partners.


In my partnership with this extraordinary man, I've witnessed the alchemy of love and healing at work. Together, we've created a space where vulnerability is celebrated, wounds are tenderly tended to, and growth is embraced with open arms. It's a partnership built on mutual respect, empathy, and a shared commitment to making each other's lives better.


As I gaze into the horizon of possibility, I am filled with gratitude for the journey that brought me here. From trauma to triumph, from heartache to healing, each step has been a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of love. And as I embark on this next chapter, I do so with an open heart and a steadfast belief in the magic of possibility and partnership. I know it’s possible for you too and will hold the space for that until you can envision it for your own life. 

Love after traumaHealing relationshipsOvercoming heartacheRelationship healing journeyFinding love again
blog author image

Priya Patel

A Somatica Institute Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach, specializing in trauma recovery with the Center for Trauma and Embodiment. Drawing from my extensive experience and teachings in Eastern practices of Meditation, Yoga, and Self-Realization worldwide, I've crafted a unique blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom to guide individuals toward having the life and relationship they want and deserve. With over 6 years of coaching experience, I've supported over 250 individuals, young adults, and couples in extreme distress. Through the transformative hands-on program of the Relationship Lab, I equip clients with essential tools for intimacy, helping them break free from destructive patterns and fostering genuine connections.

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