Dating

What aspect of dating are you curious about? Whether it’s tips for dating, navigating relationships, or something specific, I’m here to help!

This will include the following workshops and benefits:

  • How to stop Ruminating. Click here to Register

  • Building Stability Beyond Overwhelm. Click Here to Register

(Includes above listed Workshops + Weekly Newsletter & Tips +
Personalized 1:1 Coaching for Dating with Intention and Clarity)

TESTIMONIALS

Client

Sophia

Creative Director

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Mia

Project Manager

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Operations Coordinator

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Working with Priya has been a transformative experience unlike any other. For years, I carried the weight of shame and secrecy from childhood abuse as well as infidelity in my marriage. The emotional distance between my husband and I was large and continuing to grow. Our entire relationship was fueled by years of resentment and unspoken truths.

On the surface, we appeared to be the epitome of a power couple, but behind closed doors, our relationship was far from it. Priya provided a safe haven for me to confront my deepest fears and insecurities. With her compassionate guidance, I navigated through layers of shame and guilt, unraveling the tangled web of lies I had woven.

Through techniques I learned with her in The Relationship Lab, I learned to reconnect with my true self and embrace vulnerability as a source of strength.I went down a path of self-discovery with Priya that unearthed newfound depths within myself and cultivated a newfound ability to communicate authentically. Priya's unwavering support empowered me to confront the truth and rebuild trust in my marriage.

Today, my husband and I are on a path of healing and renewal, forging a deeper connection rooted in honesty and transparency. I'm eternally grateful to Priya for guiding me through this process of growth and self-liberation.

-Tiana T.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Can my sex life become more engaged and pleasurable?

Yes, working with Priya you can explore your fantasies, sexual edge, and grow in self-awareness of your arousal.  Maybe you want to negotiate kinky play with your partner. Or, perhaps you feel ashamed of a fantasy that you run in your head.  Whatever you are thinking or wanting, we can work together to find the perfect way for you to negotiate getting it put in the world. 

What if I have Vaginal Pain or Erectile Dysfunction? Can you help?

Priya has helped people with all sorts of physical limitations and sexual dysfunctions find experiences and pleasure that create a thriving sex life.  Her clients have found both improvement and healing after working with Priya within 3-6 months.  What ends up surprising these clients most is how once they learn to listen to their body’s language they can utilize it as a powerful tool to explore. 

Do you take insurance?

No, Priya is not a therapist but is a certified sex,relationship, and intimacy coach.  As a coach she acts as a practice partner to help you create the relationships you want in your life.  Working with a sex therapist is very different from working with a Somatica Coach.  Somatica is a practical, hands on and experiential modality where you gain the tools and confidence you need.   What makes this different from therapy is the real life practice you get that helps you make changes rapidly. Coaching and traditional talk therapy are two very different modalities. My role as a coach is to help you get what you want around your unique needs and what you desire in life.  

What is the Somatica Method?

The Somatica Method is an experiential holistic sex and relationship coaching method that combines talk-based coaching WITH more experiential, hands-on practices that help you learn the techniques for drawing deeper mind-body connections to yourself and others that lends itself to intimacy, connection, and relating. Clients enter a “lab” with me where we can experiment with trying on concepts with practices on topics like attachment, identity, core desires, boundaries, repair, communication, attunement, vulnerable sharing, arousal and connection.

What do you mean it’s experiential?

What makes the Somatica Method unique is the use of the self in the coaching relationship.  I don’t just talk about it with you. We practice concepts within the coaching relationship.  I help clients explore connecting to their whole body, pleasure, desire, attachment + individuation, empathy, tuning to others, navigating life transitions, shame, core desires and full erotic self-expression.  We practice together and then when you have it down you then integrate these experiences into your everyday lives and relationships.

What can I expect in a coaching session?

My coaching style is very client-centric with an emphasis on what you want for yourself and your life.  I will always leave space to address what is happening in your current life while giving you education and practices on concepts for your healing, growth, and transformation.  Empathy and connection are the driving forces behind my practice.  I will walk alongside you as you move through and grow.

Who is sex, relationship, and intimacy coaching for?

Single, Married, Dating, Poly, Open, Gay, Straight, Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, folks- anyone who is looking to grow in their own self-awareness and to be in a relationship with others is welcome into “the Lab” with Priya.  She helps people who want to gain communication mastery to navigate needs, boundaries and conflict.  In addition, she specializes in helping people recovery from relational trauma such as sexual abuse, abandonment, neglect and betrayal. Priya works with her clients to curate a program for their individual needs. 

Do you have Sex with your clients?

If clients choose to explore, they can engage in a number of experiential practices with Priya that explore desire and arousal staying in the boundaries of the Somatica Method.  She does not engage with clients in the act of oral or penetrative sex, genital touch or with lip kissing.  When in sessions clothing is kept. Both of you will share your individual boundaries. 

Can my sex life become more engaged and pleasurable?

Yes, working with Priya you can explore your fantasies, sexual edge, and grow in self-awareness of your arousal.  Maybe you want to negotiate kinky play with your partner. Or, perhaps you feel ashamed of a fantasy that you run in your head.  Whatever you are thinking or wanting, we can work together to find the perfect way for you to negotiate getting it put in the world. 

Our Recent Blogs

A serene yoga mat setting symbolizing the journey of self-discovery and healing for trauma survivors through pleasure research and choice.

Pleasure Research for Trauma Survivors

June 02, 20243 min read

A serene yoga mat setting symbolizing the journey of self-discovery and healing for trauma survivors through pleasure research and choice.

In the serene space of a yoga mat, where the body meets the mind, lies a profound opportunity for self-discovery and healing. As a trauma-informed yoga teacher, I've come to understand the transformative power of choice, and how it intertwines with pleasure research, guiding individuals towards a path of authentic living and joy.

Pleasure research, a concept often illuminated within sacred sisterhood circles, is a beacon of light for those seeking to reconnect with their inner selves. It's a journey of exploration, a celebration of choice, and a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

Picture yourself on your yoga mat, surrounded by gentle whispers of possibility. Instead of dictating your movements, you're presented with two or three options, each inviting you to tune into your body's whispers and honor its unique needs. This simple act of empowerment fosters a dialogue between body and soul, as you ask yourself, "Did I like that or not? How did that feel for me? Do I want to stop or do it again?"  This is what Trauma Center Trauma Sensitive Yoga invites us into.  A complete space of possibility and exploration. 

Yet, the beauty of pleasure research extends far beyond the confines of the mat. It's a philosophy that permeates every aspect of life, inviting us to embrace self-exploration with open arms. From the indulgence of a morning pan de chocolat to the decision of how to spend your day, every choice becomes an opportunity for self-discovery.

But what does pleasure research truly entail, and how does it intertwine with trauma recovery?

At its core, pleasure research is about giving ourselves permission to try new things without judgment. It's about becoming curious explorers of our own desires, needs, thoughts, and values. In the context of trauma recovery, this journey takes on a profound significance.

Trauma, whether big or small, can leave a profound imprint on our sense of self and agency. It can shroud our world in darkness, leaving us feeling powerless and disconnected. Yet, through the lens of pleasure research, we reclaim our autonomy one choice at a time.

By engaging in pleasure research, we learn to trust ourselves again. We become the architects of our own healing journey, guided not by fear or shame, but by curiosity and compassion. Each choice becomes a stepping stone towards reclaiming our joy, our authenticity, and our sense of wholeness.

In the midst of trauma recovery, the concept of choice takes on a new significance. It becomes a tool for empowerment, a beacon of hope in the darkest of nights. Through the practice of pleasure research, we learn to listen to our bodies, honor our needs, and forge a path towards healing on our own terms.

So, the next time you find yourself on your yoga mat, or standing at a crossroads in life, remember the power of choice. Embrace the journey of pleasure research with an open heart and a curious mind. For in the pursuit of joy lies the essence of our humanity, and in the embrace of choice lies the key to our liberation.

Trauma recoveryPleasure researchTrauma-informed yogaHealing journeyYoga for trauma survivors
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Priya Patel

A Somatica Institute Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach, specializing in trauma recovery with the Center for Trauma and Embodiment. Drawing from my extensive experience and teachings in Eastern practices of Meditation, Yoga, and Self-Realization worldwide, I've crafted a unique blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom to guide individuals toward having the life and relationship they want and deserve. With over 6 years of coaching experience, I've supported over 250 individuals, young adults, and couples in extreme distress. Through the transformative hands-on program of the Relationship Lab, I equip clients with essential tools for intimacy, helping them break free from destructive patterns and fostering genuine connections.

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A serene yoga mat setting symbolizing the journey of self-discovery and healing for trauma survivors through pleasure research and choice.

Pleasure Research for Trauma Survivors

June 02, 20243 min read

A serene yoga mat setting symbolizing the journey of self-discovery and healing for trauma survivors through pleasure research and choice.

In the serene space of a yoga mat, where the body meets the mind, lies a profound opportunity for self-discovery and healing. As a trauma-informed yoga teacher, I've come to understand the transformative power of choice, and how it intertwines with pleasure research, guiding individuals towards a path of authentic living and joy.

Pleasure research, a concept often illuminated within sacred sisterhood circles, is a beacon of light for those seeking to reconnect with their inner selves. It's a journey of exploration, a celebration of choice, and a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

Picture yourself on your yoga mat, surrounded by gentle whispers of possibility. Instead of dictating your movements, you're presented with two or three options, each inviting you to tune into your body's whispers and honor its unique needs. This simple act of empowerment fosters a dialogue between body and soul, as you ask yourself, "Did I like that or not? How did that feel for me? Do I want to stop or do it again?"  This is what Trauma Center Trauma Sensitive Yoga invites us into.  A complete space of possibility and exploration. 

Yet, the beauty of pleasure research extends far beyond the confines of the mat. It's a philosophy that permeates every aspect of life, inviting us to embrace self-exploration with open arms. From the indulgence of a morning pan de chocolat to the decision of how to spend your day, every choice becomes an opportunity for self-discovery.

But what does pleasure research truly entail, and how does it intertwine with trauma recovery?

At its core, pleasure research is about giving ourselves permission to try new things without judgment. It's about becoming curious explorers of our own desires, needs, thoughts, and values. In the context of trauma recovery, this journey takes on a profound significance.

Trauma, whether big or small, can leave a profound imprint on our sense of self and agency. It can shroud our world in darkness, leaving us feeling powerless and disconnected. Yet, through the lens of pleasure research, we reclaim our autonomy one choice at a time.

By engaging in pleasure research, we learn to trust ourselves again. We become the architects of our own healing journey, guided not by fear or shame, but by curiosity and compassion. Each choice becomes a stepping stone towards reclaiming our joy, our authenticity, and our sense of wholeness.

In the midst of trauma recovery, the concept of choice takes on a new significance. It becomes a tool for empowerment, a beacon of hope in the darkest of nights. Through the practice of pleasure research, we learn to listen to our bodies, honor our needs, and forge a path towards healing on our own terms.

So, the next time you find yourself on your yoga mat, or standing at a crossroads in life, remember the power of choice. Embrace the journey of pleasure research with an open heart and a curious mind. For in the pursuit of joy lies the essence of our humanity, and in the embrace of choice lies the key to our liberation.

Trauma recoveryPleasure researchTrauma-informed yogaHealing journeyYoga for trauma survivors
blog author image

Priya Patel

A Somatica Institute Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach, specializing in trauma recovery with the Center for Trauma and Embodiment. Drawing from my extensive experience and teachings in Eastern practices of Meditation, Yoga, and Self-Realization worldwide, I've crafted a unique blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom to guide individuals toward having the life and relationship they want and deserve. With over 6 years of coaching experience, I've supported over 250 individuals, young adults, and couples in extreme distress. Through the transformative hands-on program of the Relationship Lab, I equip clients with essential tools for intimacy, helping them break free from destructive patterns and fostering genuine connections.

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